Maybe u guys can approach a marriage counselor for help. If by then, he still behaves this way then it is better off for u to be strong willed and file for divorce
Seems like there is no love in your marriage. He simply doesn't want to take responsibility in the house anymore. Maybe you should consider divorce.
and i took initiative to asked him fr dine out tgt and hang out sometimes as i took alot of examples to him like we need our we time too like our old days cause i have my helper and my mom to take care of my baby so it shouldn’t be worry his answer would be if de baby nv go with us he will stay home too and asked me go on my own. and i tried go on my own cause i need to have my own time sometimes but end up he nv take care of the baby at home. he would be playing with phone or calling his mom.
J&Y