My marriage is OK.. Not great, not exciting, but nothing to complain about. I miss having butterflies in my tummy, that electric feeling of falling enough and first kisses. Is OK good enough? I know it is selfish to think this way but I can't live the rest of my life with a boring OK.

For me, I could settle for "ok". I don't see it as boring, more like being happy with the familiarity. Sure, things get routine but I know that there is someone whom I can depend on. Add a few little surprises to throw things off balance for a little excitement. It probably can't compare with the "butterflies in the stomach" feeling but it is good enough for me. Guess I'm at the stage where I prefer to have someone who knows me and whom I can be myself with, rather then to have to be on my best and having to learn about the other person. While exciting, the guessing part is too tiring for me. haha.. I have a old soul I guess.