My marriage is OK.. Not great, not exciting, but nothing to complain about. I miss having butterflies in my tummy, that electric feeling of falling enough and first kisses. Is OK good enough? I know it is selfish to think this way but I can't live the rest of my life with a boring OK.

For me, I could settle for "ok". I don't see it as boring, more like being happy with the familiarity. Sure, things get routine but I know that there is someone whom I can depend on. Add a few little surprises to throw things off balance for a little excitement. It probably can't compare with the "butterflies in the stomach" feeling but it is good enough for me. Guess I'm at the stage where I prefer to have someone who knows me and whom I can be myself with, rather then to have to be on my best and having to learn about the other person. While exciting, the guessing part is too tiring for me. haha.. I have a old soul I guess.

I think OK is wonderful! Remember you got married and became a couple, spending days and nights with each other. You now know the other one better than themselves. There are lesser surprises and more routines. And then, there are life struggles, household finances and kids to take care of. Obviously while combating everything with the feeling of a team, there is less room for butterflies and goosebumps. Like they say, it's perfectly average. :)

Who doesn't miss that feeling of butterflies and first kisses but those things realistically don't last. You can however maintain the warm and giddy feelings by putting in effort in keeping the passions alive, not taking each other for granted and to always be there for one another. Personally, I'd take the feeling of certainty, stability over a temporary rush of emotions any day.

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