Would you know if it is safe for toddlers (2-3 y/o) to eat bibingka and some other kakanin?

Safe as long as you prepare smaller portions before serving the food to your toddler. And always keep an eye on your little one while he/she eats. This is to also prevent choking. I suggest you feed her kakanin in moderation especially the super sweet ones like sapin-sapin and biko with ubod.