High risk of Down Syndrome

I feel you and understand the stress both of you are facing. Allow me to share our experience, which is substantial long. My wife went alone (the only appointment I didn't go with her, seems like destined) for scan on her 20th weeks pregnancy by another doctor and the doctor didn't say any abnormality. When I read the result at night, it appeared to me something amiss. Since the doctor didn't say anything, we trust that nothing is wrong. When we went on the 23rd weeks 4 days appointment with the gynaecologist, who just back from 4 weeks vacation, she jumped from her seat when she saw the result. We were stunned and knew something really bad. She asked did the doctor who did the scan alerted us and she was furious we were not told. She told us there were 2 white spots on the baby's heart and the baby may have severe health issue (or can't live long) after birth. We have to decide to terminate before 24th weeks(2 days to decide). She gave us 5 renowned paediatric cardiologist names to choose to seek opinion. We were perplexed and let her arranged the earliest appointment and whoever the specialist. We went to consult the paediatric cardiologist the next morning at 9am. While waiting for the in-depth scan and analysis result, we decided to keep the baby and accept whatever we have to face. Another reason was I didn't want to endanger my wife's life as the bump was big. When the result was out, the cardiologist told us 80% of the chances the baby will be fine. After our child was born, we brought her to the cardiologist for check as advised by him. He told us no abnormality except only one spot on her heart. Another follow up was done to confirm she is healthy and able to attend her PE lessons. To date, she is normal and running around. I am sorry l couldn't suggest what you should do as the stress you will be facing is colossal. Hope your baby is fine and don't bother what others say for the decision you will make. 🌈💪