How do parents save up financially?

Don't be shy to accept hand me downs. I received a lot of 2nd hand clothes from relatives and friends. It really saves me a lot of money as babies grow very fast, not worth it to buy. I go to baby fair and survey online. I usually look for something that can be used long term. For example the cot I buy can be used all the way until my baby is a toddler. Invest in something that can be used long term = save more money. I started buying in my 2nd tri. Slowly buy the big ticket items. All the best!