can i ask you why you and your hubby are staying apart? well, whatever the reason, now that you think there is some disconnect, i would suggest you try and shift back with him.
what you mentioned, that he is in touch with his ex and getting closer to her could be because he is genuinely lonely. i am sorry to say this but in these busy times, loneliness can actually make us get involved with others, even though that may not be the intention initially.
why don't you try and rekindle your relationship with your husband? i am sure you both have shared some great times and it seems that you still love him. no where did you mention that you do not love him. so if there is still love, there is a lot of hope and scope to make things work :) talk to him, spend quality time with him, go out on date nights with him if someone can take care of the baby while you are away, or go on a weekend break where you can forget the gadgets and just be with each other. try and get back the love :)
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