I'm a first time mom, i still live in my parents house with my husband. Not because we cannot afford to live on our own, but my father don't want us to leave yet, because he's still fond of my 2 months baby boy. Please bear with me kasi di ko na alam gagawin ko. I have 3 sisters one of them is my sis in-law and 2 bro's. Number 1 concern: SMOKING! 4 people in our house are smoking, they smoke outside basta malayo kay baby. BUT! After they smoke hindi man lang sila nag papalit ng damit pag hahawak kay baby! And even mag alcohol! Number 2: HYGIENE My number 3 sister, has halitosis (i think) super bad breath. She's kissing ny baby all over his face (the gigil type) and pag kinakausap niya ang lapit! Her smell stinks also because, she's the kind of girl who keeps repeating her clothes without washing it! Yung tipong nagamit mo na napa bangohan mo na, tas ganon ulit. And oh! She's too lazy to shower sometimes and even mag tooth brush. Number 3: CAUGHT KISSING MY BABY ON HIS LIPS AND ALWAYS WAKING HIM UP My sis in-law, she's super fond of my baby, always spoiling him with clothes and baby stuff. My concern is just i always caught her kissing my baby on his lips (pag nang gigigil siya) to think na she's the one who sent me a blog about kissing babies particularly in lips are quite dangerous to babies health. And also when my baby is asleep, when she come home from work, kinukuha niya anak ko kahit naka latch pa sakin, or tulog!

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mommy, alam ko na alam mo na kung ano ba talaga ang dapat gawin. need mo lang tapangan, lakasan ang loob. anyway, para to kay baby. kahit ano gawin mo (magmove out or iconfront sila) may masasabi at masasabi sila, kaya gawin mo kung ano ung tingin mo na mas better para sa welfare ni baby.

Oh my.. I think those really are valid concerns. These are all enough for you to decide to go on a separate house... One is of course for your baby's sake.. And most specially because, kailangan din naman po talaga bumukod na as family, para may privacy kayo...

I think it's better for your own family na bumukod na lang. At least sa sarili nyong house, you can make your own rules. About sa family members mo, you can talk to them nicely and with respect pa din naman. Just put your child's health first before anything.

The 1st thing you do. Talk to ur husband about that moms. Para masabihan nyadin kapatid nya. Kasi pag ikaw pagnagsabi sabihin pa ng sister in law mo na ang OA mo. Ikaw din ung mahihirapan pag nagkasakit c baby. Jusko hindi ba alam ng sister in law mo na mabahu hininga nya?

sis, talk to them. Your baby, your call. ikaw ang mom and dapat you make a stand for your own baby's sake. medyo concerning ung paglapit nila na ndi sila nagsanitize, na unclean and lalo na ung pag kiss sa lips. please talk to them.

Naku mommy lipat nalang kayo..or kung talagang can't afford magsarili talk to them, di naman sila iba sayo kasi pamilya mo sila, sasama man loob nila atleast nasabi mo kung anu makakabuti sa anak mo.. YOUR BABY YOUR RULES.

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Bumukod kayo sis, isipin mo na lang para sa health yun nang baby mo. Inform your husband sa mga nangyayari at kung nung possible risk nun sa anak niyo. Syempre maiisip naman niya na mahalaga ang health nang bata.

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mag usap po kau include ur parents regarding sa concern mo po kay baby pro in a proper and nice way na hindi den po cla ma offend sau.for sure ma iintindihan ka naman nila pra sa ikakabuti ng anak mo

You have your right if you want to separate anyway you can afford to be on your own. If it is for the good of your baby and the three of you as a family then go on. your father can visit you anytime.