Mommies: I want to hear your suggestions

Im currently a working mom, soon to be a mom of two.. sa ngayon walang nag aalaga sa firstborn ko kasama ko sya sa office, manager ko ang mister ko but still di po ako makafocus ng maayos lalo na kapag may mga client kami, no other relatives para mahire as baby sitter. Natatakot din maghire ng basta basta.. Tanong ko lang mommies, sa mga working moms na pinili mag stay at home at mag alaga sa mga anak or anak. Paano nyo po binalanse lahat? i mean how do you cope? how do you come up to that big decision, to let go of the opportunity and stay with your children? kasi nagkaka anxiety nako im 7week pregnant. And while working seeing my boy with me in the office sobrang nagkakaguilt ako.. na nasa workplace ko sya imbes nasa bahay or naglalaro lang. 😊Torn between wanting to stay employed and/or be the one to take care of my soon to be magiging dalawang kids .. No to bash 😊 #advicepls

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Hi mommy. There's really no wrong or right answer for this, only what you believe will be the best for you and your family. You'll most probaby feel mom-guilt eitherway-- either for not being there 100% for your child, or not being able to contribute financially to the household. Personally, sinabi ko na sa sarili ko beforehand na gusto ko maging full-time mom but as it turned out, na-hire ako during my pregnancy. Overall, I believe it turned out for the best. I just do my best to spend as much time as I can with my family, and to make the most out of it. Sa totoo lang, sobrang nakakapagod ang pagiging full-time mom. I actually feel that my time away at work is my rest time (Extra Salute to full-time moms!) I suggest to talk it out with your husband and see what your options are. Regardless of your decision, I'm sure it will be a huge sacrifice for you but as long as you believe that it's for the best, then you'll be ok. *Hugs!

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