I need advice.

I’m currently in my 26 weeks of pregnancy, and I’m about to be a single mom. I have no work and my family’s financial capacity isn’t that great. My baby’s father offer some financial assistance but I’m hesitant to accept it. Because I would risk my peace of mind and mental health because of “utang na loob” and other words I would received from him and his family. We broke up due to a 3rd party issue and physical abuse. Should I accept their help? Please enlighten me. #firstbaby #advicepls

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Kung ako yan sis, hindi ko tatanggapin. Kasi ang sakit nun. Kada mag-uusap kayo tuwing kukunin mo financial assistance, maaalala mo yung mga pasakit at panloloko niya sa'yo. Tempting tanggapin kasi wala kang work. "Not that great" ang financial capacity ng family mo, pero baka magawan mo pa ng paraan. 6.5 months ka nang buntis. Malapit ka na manganak. Try mo sis maghanap ng work from home job kahit freelance or part time. Marunong ka mag-English. Try mo online call center agent, English tutor, virtual assistant, social media manager, etc. Hanap ka sa onlinejobs.ph or upwork. Kaya pa yan sis. Kung hindi ka makahanap ng work agad, kausapin mo nanay/tatay/mga kapatid/mga kaibigan mo na uutang ka sa kanila or baka pwede ka ipangutang sa iba kahit may tubo. Then give them assurance na babayaran mo naman sila kasi kasalukuyan kang naghahanap ng online job.

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