I need advice.

I’m currently in my 26 weeks of pregnancy, and I’m about to be a single mom. I have no work and my family’s financial capacity isn’t that great. My baby’s father offer some financial assistance but I’m hesitant to accept it. Because I would risk my peace of mind and mental health because of “utang na loob” and other words I would received from him and his family. We broke up due to a 3rd party issue and physical abuse. Should I accept their help? Please enlighten me. #firstbaby #advicepls

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Tama po yan kung kaya mo naman buhayin yung baby mo at hindi ka hihingi sa father nya much better use your surname para wala habol yung father.

Tanggapin nyo po, eventually hihinto dn yan sa pagsuntento. At habang lumalaki ang baby mo, wag na wag mong sisirain sa utak nya ang tatay nya.

tanggapin mo na obligation nya Yun at dapat nga higit pa doon . di ko hahayaang magpaka sarap lang sya habang ako tamang pride lang. NO.

accept it, it is the father's obligation to do so. Pwede mo sya kasuhan ng VAWC for non support sa bata kung di sya magsusustento

obligasyon nya ang anak nyo kya wag ka mhiya.. at kht kelan dimo mgging utang na loob un.. kuhain mo ang pra sa anak mo

responsibilidad yun ng tatay buti nga sayo nagkukusa magbigay, sakin hndi la kwenta

Hi mommy.. d nman un utang na loob kc responsibility nya yan.

do what's best for your baby po.