SENSITIVE QUESTION

I'm currently 25 weeks pregnant po. I don't know why i prepare doing masturbation than having intercourse from my husband. everyday nasa work sya and everytime na bored ako nanonood ako ng p*rn and di ko maiwasang mag masturbate pero through playing my clitoris lang po until matapos ako. then sa gabi umuuwi yung hubby ko may times na nag aaya sya, di ko naman pinapakita na tinatamad na ako or inaantok. basta hindi lang ako nag pifirst move hanggang sa nakakatulog nalang din sya dahil sa pagod. nagiguilty ako mga mi kasi gusto ko man pag silbihan sya sa kama kaso wala na po akong gana sa mga oras na kasama ko na sya dahil nga sa alam kong "tapos na ako kanina". natatakot din naman ako na baka magsawa sya dahil palagi nalang sya yung nag pifirst move or kumikilos. any advice po🙂

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Hello. My answers are my personal, somewhat conservative take on this matter. Scientifically it’s normal sa pregnant na mag increase ang sex drive, dahil na rin yan sa pregnancy hormones natin. What isn’t normal for me is satisfying it by watching other people have s*x or watching p*rn. I know this generation normalized watching p*rn, but in reality we are not comfortable witnessing two people getting on IRL. So that only means that p*rn is not in our nature as conscious moral human beings. With that being said you might want to assess yourself, baka may porn addiction ka. Women are not free from p*rn addiction and according p*rn statistics i just looked up “According to a 2014 study, over half (56%) of divorces involved one partner having an obsessive interest in online porn”. Its says partners so it can also be a woman. The only advice I can give you is do not use p*rn as a past time when you’re bored. Wait for your husband to help you satisfy your urges, and if love making can’t satisfy it, you do you without depending on watching other people. P.S. Tsaka baka mafeel na husband mo na lost interest ka na sakaniya dahil siya lang lagi nagfi-first move, and that is not a good feeling to experience.

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8mo ago

thanks po sa advice, i really appreciated your effort for giving me that ideas po😊. love ko naman po yung partner ko and hindi naman nawawala yung pagiging caring and clingy ko for him. yun lang po talaga yung problem about me so thanks po na enlightened na po ako🥰🫶🏻

related much .... minsan nga po nhuhuli ko pa misis ko nagmamsturbate tru cctv ... ok lng nman as long as happy sya.