Not horny or wet

Im at 35weeks now.. and will be going for an induction at 37weeks due to some slight complications. However i am quite afraid and would like to induce labour naturally by maybe having sex.. buttttt for the past few months, my sex drive have been really low to non existent and i just do not get wet enough. Husband has been quite upset about it. What can i do to increase the drive? #advicepls and yes i have gotten the green light from a gynae to have such activities despite my complications.

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For me, I don’t wait until I am wet to be with my husband. I’ll make the first move. He’s just lying there like a dead log. I’ll go down on him, make sure he’s fully turned on, then go on top and do the deed until it’s over. I don’t even bother getting an orgasm from sex with him cause I know it’ll never happen anymore since I got pregnant. My sex drive has been really pathetic I can’t even. Get it over and done with, I must say. You want to induce labour by having sex, maybe you should just forget about having an orgasm for a start since lubricants and everything else don’t work for you then build up your sex drive again after you give birth. You just want semen to loosen up your cervix, probably that’s what you can settle with for now. 😉

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