hi mummies

i was just wondering if there is ever a case whereby ur baby just lost the bond with us mums because i just started working and my mil is taking care of my baby. i am just afraid that i had lost his trust and affection. also, he's cry is different now. much much more stressing rn so #advicepls my baby is gg to be 5mo at the end of the month.

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Your child won’t lose the bond with the mother. But of course, they will start to also be close to their main caregiver (your mil once starts working), and because of the time spent as well as your mil addressing his needs most of the time, he may sometimes seek comfort to your mil. It is all normal. Don’t be stressed, just spend the time that you have with the baby after work, baby will reciprocate accordingly. Your bond with baby is so much stronger than you think it is. Don’t get upset if he may seem to want your mil at times over you, because she did after all take care of him in the day too.

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They won’t lose the bond with you. They’ll always love and want you. Maybe he has colic? How often does he cry and isit really bad until you can’t calm him down? Cause my son had very bad colic and i cried when he cried cause it was so stressful. Cried to the point where my eyes bengkak(swollen) 😞😅 stress

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12mo ago

I used comotomo bottle. So far so good. U can also try dr brown’s, phillips avent natural selection. All good