I was on oral contraceptive pills for 3 years and I have finally stopped. But in that window, it seems to have completely killed my desire for physical intimacy. I feel that my marriage is suffering because of lack of intimacy (from my side). What should I do?

Pills may alter hormones and its not your fault.. Don't be hard on yourself because soon it will wear off.. And since you are aware of it, it would be easier for you to help yourself in bringing back the fire between you and your husband.. Think of it like your first time :)