Miscarriage

Hi to all.. here i have no qns to ask but just sharing that i just had a miscarriage due to the pinkish spotting i had. The pinkish spotting turns to a bright red n then it get to heavy flow. And cramping too. At the end early today i went to the E&E. I didn’t know how miscarriage looks like. I didn’t know that i miscarriage already when taking the urine. I just felt a lump came out and thought it was a blood clot. To my surprise when the doctor to the scan, they couldn’t find my sac. Then that i know the piece of lump in the toilet bowl was my sac, my baby.. this is my second miscarriage this year. I dont know why is this happening to me. I’m not strong to handle this for the second time.. why is it has to be me.. i cant handle this..

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Dear, my advice is treat yourself first before trying again. Have ample rest. Important! And have yourself check. I had a miscarriage 2 yrs ago (in fact, my 2nd miscarriage after yrs), a planned one but sadly... I also had a natural miscarriage a day before my scheduled D&C. I saw my sac in the toilet bowl and picked it up. I was really very down and I put myself on bed rest & have a mini confinement. I grief for a yr and decided that, that is it, I have to move on. I let my body & mind heal completely first before I try to TTC again. When I least expected to be pregnant, I was surprised to see a positive kit! Again, I bed rest until I was almost into my 2nd trimester. I know it's a difficult moment. Miscarriage is no fun and it made one go into deep sorrow. Like I said, heal first. Your rainbow baby will come to you when you least expected.

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