I have a helper but noticed that her working attitude is really jialat. How do SAHM with few toddlers cope without a helper at home? How do you manage the busy schedule alone?

It can be challenging at times but once you get the hang of it, it will be easier. If I need to cook or do household chores, I will let both my boys go into the play yard to play together or I will put young one for nap and older one will watch the tv for awhile while I do my stuff up quick. There are times where things totally cannot do done and there are times where I have nothing to do after finishing up all the chores.