Toughest time

I am going through depression and anxiety po as of the moment. Mga 1 week na ever since na nalaman kong buntis ako at tinalikuran kami ng ama nitong dinadala ko. 1 week na kong araw gabi umiiyak, bigla bigla na lang may makakapag paalala sakin ng mga bagay bagay humahagulgol talaga ko. Hindi ko pa din maalis sa puso ko ung sama ng loob at bigat ng nararamdaman ko. Bukod sa mainitin ang ulo ko. Mataas ang stress levels ko. Minsan nararamdaman ko na lang na nanghihina na ung puso ko dahil sa sobrang kalungkutan. Alam na din naman ng family ko ung nangyari saken. At dito sa app na to, dito ko nakakahanap ng pagkakalibangan at ideas para panandaliang makalimot at hanggang makabangon. Habang nalilibang ako, may natututunan pa ko. At hindi nakakastress ung mga nababasa ko. Very informative sya lalo na't first time kong magbuntis and I don't know what else to prepare. Cause I know it has to be extra especially I will be a solo parent..

Nica

First time mom

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Hi! The fact na you will be keeping your baby kahit na tinalikuran ka ng nakabuntis sayo is the bravest decision that you ever made. I know, mahirap ang pinagadadaanan mo. At hindi mabilis makalimot. Acceptance is the key, sis. Pero it will still take a long time for you to heal. And that's okay. Basta don't rush things. Lagi mo kausapin baby mo! Talk to God also. I swear kahit papano makakatulong yan. Yes you will have to prepare talaga. Pero kung supportive naman parents mo sayo, enough na yun. Wag mong hayaang masira ang buhay mo dahil sa isang lalaking walang paninindigan at walang bayag. You don't deserve that. Malay mo may iba palang ibibigay si God para sayo, yung kaya kayong tanggapin ng anak mo. Always pray. It may not take away your anguish completely, but somehow it can help. Good luck sis!

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Nica

First time mom

5y ago

Thank you mommy for the words of wisdom, it gibe me courage to face it alone as well, and yes, supportive naman ang family ko. And I pray that soon, the heaviness Im feeling in my heart will fade. Im not closing my doors to opportunities and I know what am I capable of. Kailangan ko lang ng makakapitan through these tough times, slowly I know. But Im sure Ill make it through. Thank you mommy, god bless you and you child! 💗

Hi momsh, be strong for your baby. normal lang ang nararamdaman mo na malungkot, masaktan, magalit etc. lalo pa na preggy ka. windang pa ang body natin kaya mas emotional tayo sa mga panahon na yan. You are brave momsh, and I am inspired na despite tinalikuran ka ng lalaki mas pinili mo ikeep si baby. you'll be alright thats very sure. kapag nakita mo na si baby that will help you forget all the pain, hardship, and sorrow. everyday ka magiging thankful dahil sa buhay na pinagkatiwala sayo. thats how I always feel everyday kapag tinitignan ko yung anak ko.

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Nica

First time mom

5y ago

Mahirap talaga momsh! Hiniling ko pa namang magkaanak kami ng ama nya dahil feel na feel ko talagang mahal nya ko e! Kahit na sobrang stressed ako sa kanya palagi. Palagi ko syang inaaway pero nilalambing nya lang ako. Aba'y duwag naman pala sa responsibilidad! Nabahag ang buntot! This will be my hardest lesson. And thank you for giving me courage to slowly overcome these rough times! I know I'll make it through and I have to. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger ika nga! ☺ God bless you and your child mommy! 💗

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