I Want To Try To Conceive But I Am Scared Of The Pain

I am getting married soon and I want to try to have baby but have very low pain tolerance and even the thought of epidurals scares me.. I don't know what to do? I think I want to adopt but my fiance and his family will be very sad. Help please

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Adopt? People usually adopt cause they can't have kids or they really have compassion for some of the kids out there. Are you in your right mind? Most would prefer their own flesh and blood.

6y ago

I wish that is not the case just that I am really petrified at the thought of it.