I am on full terms now, going 37 weeks. I am so worry about everything. I scared that I can't handle this big responsible worry that I will not do well. I am scared of labour pain and going under knife(c-section). I don't know how to deal with the fear I am having. I even tell my husband that I wish my baby can be in my tummy don't come out. He reply you are so uncomfortable why not faster have him out and you will be more relax. I say I rather have all the hips/bone ache and sleepless night and frequently urine lo. The unknown labour pain is the one that I am so afraid of. I become very emo and wondering why only the women have to been through all this and not the husband. They still can say nvm don't worry, not pain, no need scared. Then why not they go through it also with us. Experience the pain and changes we have. I am so sad and even keep crying like a scary cat. My husband say I should not think too much. But I am the one going through all this sure will think alot.

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When u r in labour or pain..the only thing u will think of is the safety of your baby...whatever it takes u just wanna yr baby come out healthily....really. dont think too much. I overcomed many fears after i have my baby. Eg i used to grab on tightly during landing n take off in plane. With my baby with me i forgotten abt all these fears and only think abt her safety. During my delivery as well. I am so afraid of gg under the knives but due to unforeseen circumstances..baby heartbeat drop n me having fever..i need to go for emergency c sect and though i was most afraid but i could only think abt the wellbeing of my baby at tt moment. Its a mothers instinct. It will come soon for u even if it havent. Plus think abt soooo many women gone thru childbirth and all of us survived! Dont keep thinking abt it eg those pain etc.. just pray for a healthy baby!!! Wish u all the best!!! Btw with epidural its totally no pain...

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