my husband rarely help with housework too because he works more than 8 hours per day. if ur man is working 8 hours everyday. n not doing too heavy work, he actually can help u with the baby at least, like my brother,he work office hour,after work he help bath the child, or take them out for some fresh air. he likes to sleep a lot too, he argued a lot too tho he helped at home already. I don't know maybe as wife we just need some attention and at least a little help or question like, do we need some me time, or help or I dont know. just attention n care. bcuz this work as a wife ,the pay is only by love n care.
Maybe you REALLY need to have serious conv with your husband. Talk to him and try to handle it nicely.
discus with your husband nicely sis mybe he can understand your situation？
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