I cant help but cried and felt super sad when hubby told me "i think ur pregnancy is quite relax and nt tedious hor, cox i also nv see u in much pain" Matter of fact is, when i was nt feeling well and in great pain, either he was nt by my side or just ignore me. All these i also nv complaint a word, jus endure the pain and still gotta look aft no 1 myself who is jus 15mo. I have very bad lower back and joint issue which i cant stand or walk too much even when im a normal person(nt preg). I will experience sharp piercing pain as and when now cox gynae says pelvic bones are expanding, thus the pain will be more and frequent. I could feel the pain until i cried. But most heartpain is, hubby thinks its ok and just endure lo or take pain killer if its so unbearable. Sigh... to some extent, i rather nt tell him and make myself feeling terrible. Sometimes i would just wanna rest and lie dwn on my back and hubby will say like "wah u very eng hor, can rest liao and u expect me to look aft no1 isit" It hurts to hear this leh. I cant help but cry deep down. Feeling heartbroken.

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Can feel you. Stay strong mama! i think i agree with the others that men are really quite oblivious towards things like that. When i broke the news to hubs that i’m pregnant, he threw the test back at me and turned around to face the wall. His reaction isn’t what i expected and was quite upsetting that he don’t share the same excitement. Later that week, he went around telling our close friends that i’m pregnant. i think he was in a lot of shock that we got pregnant on the first try. He also didn’t ask me much about pregnancy or babies development etc up till today. i’m the one feeding him with info mostly. i think just be upfront with him, what you need and update him of your well being everyday like you’re nauseous etc. and cry if you need to release, in front of him.

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