Matigas na ulo na toddler

Maaari nga po na dahil sa in laws kaya naispoil, but it's ultimately our responsibility as parents to raise and discipline our children. Ganun po talaga, anuman mangyari, nasa ating mga magulang ang sisi 😢 I think if mas may influence ang in-laws kaysa sa inyong mag-asawa, then kailangan din nating tanungin, why is that? Isipin rin po natin ano ang mga pagkukulang natin. Sa mga bata rin kasi, love = attention. Kahit anong pangi-spoil ng in-laws, nasa atin pa rin ang pagtuturo sa ating mga anak kung ano tama o mali. Kasi kahit na walang pakialamerang inlaws, kapag nag-school sila, they'll have outside influences din dun, so we have to teach and guide them pa rin. Pero more on giving logic and explanations, pagdating sa toddlers, what we really need to do is to appeal and sympathize with their emotions. Alam naman nating kapag naka-full blown tantrums na ang bata, no amount of explanation can appease them. Yung paninigaw o palo ay parang shock factor na lang to get their attention or distract them, but it doesn't really solve the problem. I highly recommend that you look up "Dr. Siggie Cohen" on social media. She's a child development specialist at ang gaganda ng mga advices nya on how to discipline children. So ang advise ko po, bukod sa pagkausap sa inlaws, ay do your best rin po para kunin rin ang loob ng anak nyo. Learn how to instill discipline not just through fear but love and respect. Mahirap po ang situation nyo, pero don't put all the blame on others dahil may responsibility rin po tayo ☺️ Unfortunately, we can't really control other people's actions (inlaws'), only our own. You might also want to consider ang pagbukod.