To stay or leave in an unhappy relationship ? 20 weeks pregnant.

I am 32 this year. My spouse to be gambles. Take care of me less than 2 days a week. We don’t stay together. He comes over to my parents place to stay with me 2 days a week. Sometimes he’s non existence . Sleep for the 2 whole day when he’s with me as he gambles till 6am. I am thinking of leaving… but I am scare… till today my parents does not know that I am pregnant. any opinion from single moms? I am pretty lost. Crying to sleep every night.

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This is only the beginning. Wait till you get married. The worse has yet to come. I suggest you leave now. Start a new life over. You will meet someone who will appreciate you and your little one in future. As of now, learn to fend for yourself even if it means being alone. Just to share with you have a 15 month old daughter and am currently pregnant with my 2nd child. My husband is addicted to obscene materials, chats with women and even goes to the extend of hiding apps on his phone just so he can watch porn secretly. This has been going on for 2 years since we got married. Few days ago, he called me a sl*t/wh*re. And other vulgarities just because our daughter vomitted on him. Earlier that day I gave him the ultimatum to clean up his phone since he still keeps all his ex-girlfriends, ex-crushes, ex-scandals, naked women, obscene videos and whatnots. But he’s still doing sh*t behind my back. His laughter is always for his friends, never for me. With me, he is always angry, always moody and does not care about my feelings at all. This time round I made up my mind to seek help from a marriage court. I believe 7 years of this bullsh*t is enough. I am a SAHM but I will find a job after I give birth and fend for me and my kids. It will be tough but I can’t live with this anymore. If you think he’s going to change, think again. Sad to say but some men are just born to be a**holes.

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