To stay or leave in an unhappy relationship ? 20 weeks pregnant.

I am 32 this year. My spouse to be gambles. Take care of me less than 2 days a week. We don’t stay together. He comes over to my parents place to stay with me 2 days a week. Sometimes he’s non existence . Sleep for the 2 whole day when he’s with me as he gambles till 6am. I am thinking of leaving… but I am scare… till today my parents does not know that I am pregnant. any opinion from single moms? I am pretty lost. Crying to sleep every night.

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A real man will not make you cry to sleep every night. If he’s doing this before baby comes out won’t it be worst when your baby arrives? he has to get rid of his gambling addiction first as gambling can really ruin a family. I can foresee lots of quarrels in future. Are you able to take care of your child financially and independently? Looks like whether or not he’s there doesn’t make a difference. You may feel like you love him now but overtime that love will fade and you will wonder why you even like him in the first place.

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