Put the waistband higher. My LO same height and inhad to put it smewhr below my boobs. U can try. And after u put if LO cry try to sway or tap the butt. Link for you reference https://youtu.be/i6fN6YvPCt8?si=36mWUKgJ-lryOjFY
what abt konnybaby? do you use pacifier to soothe your baby, if yes, can try give your baby and sway.