How to stop 2.5 years old from iPad or phones. She is quite addicted. If it's taken away, she will be kicking a fuss.

I would say to remove it totally . iPad and iPhones games do not have positive impact on young kids .. Get them to be involved in other more meaningful and healthy activities . Can be physical activities to build their gross motor skills .. Hands on, table top activities for fine motor skills, free play with Legos, building blocks to encourage creativity .. Set up a little library corner at home with different kinds of books (can borrow from library ) to encourage love for reading .. Build Special parent child bonding time through reading to your child.. When they are meaningfully engaged in these meaningful activities , they will no longer ask for iPad games