how many FTWM resigned after maternity to stay at home with LO? Is it worth to give up your career, when baby can be placed in an IFC, which might even be more beneficial for baby. Does this stretch the family finances a lot?

I never stop my work, this is depend on personal finance and how you manage. My mother in law help me to take care my boy so that I able to go work. Me and my husband mange ourself by he will settle house loan, bill and children school fee. And I will settle house groceries. So that he won't be so suffer on everything.