how many FTWM resigned after maternity to stay at home with LO? Is it worth to give up your career, when baby can be placed in an IFC, which might even be more beneficial for baby. Does this stretch the family finances a lot?

I still working mum because I got my mum and helper to help look after my little girl who is 9 mths old... I plan to place her in PG next year and not retain my helper anymore.... I know that I will missed the growing up stages of my kids but I think in Singapore it is very difficult to sustain only on 1 person salary..... therefore I will spend my evening and weekend with the kids...... I try to see them make milk for them change diaper for them sleep with them and not let my helper do it when I home....therefore.. I am full time working mum during office hours and full time mum to my kids after working hours and I got no time off...... I think that's what most mum do.....