How do you decide which set of grandparents you and the kids spend the festivals and holidays with? With both our families in town, we are trying to come up with a system what will please everyone.

You can host the celebration at your own house and invite both sets of grandparents over. That is what I do so that they will not feel left out and they can spend time with the kids together. I often find them chatting among themselves too! I think this is a great arrangement.