PIL & Baby’s first time(s)

How to deal with PIL who always want to be with us for baby’s first time(s)? Keyword: always Baby’s first time go school, baby’s first time go zoo, baby’s first time go aquarium, baby’s first pool experience.. etc, etc. Not that they can’t follow us to outings but please, there are times when I just want me hubs and baby to spend the time together. Baby’s first time(s) are pretty special and it makes me feel like… I don’t even know what to describe. Always want to be there with us anywhere. And what makes it worst is that hubs is a mama’s boy. So… every time it’s a OK with whatever she wants.

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If I were u, I will not wish my PIL to get involved in all e first time of my baby.. These are such special moments for lifetime why shld I always share it with them? You can try telling your hubby, if your parents wanna join, then I shld also get my parents too cos they are also baby’s grandparents! ✌🏻 Make sure u stand firm as mummy, otherwise there more your PIL going to get themselves involve in your baby (including how u gg tot teach).. Im supporting u mummy!

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