How to deal with kids that lie?

the first rule - don't embarrass or humiliate them, whether just in front of you and definitely not in front of anyone else. most kids go through this phase, where they are not sure of what they are doing, even though they know it is not approved by parents, and end up doing it nonetheless. at such times, there's a lot of confusion and guilt, and the last thing they are able to do is come and confess. talk to your child in a normal and friendly tone. let them know that you are aware of what has happened, but don't make it an issue. be open in your talks with your kid so that next time they feel comfortable to discuss things with you, and the lies go down considerably. as a parent, try and not be judgmental, as it can give out a very negative impression to kids.