Hi we will be hiring a helper for the first time. We require her to look after our 1 year old son, cook and do the housework. Which country do you hire your maid from? We're so confused after speaking to a number of our friends and maid agencies. Any advice is much appreciated!

My #1 criteria, is able to communicate effectively with us (I have 3 young kids). #2 - shows she loves kids - not afraid of kids' mess. Standard questions don't really help.. (they seem to have a std reply - OK sire) in the end, it cames down to our vibes. I interviewed Philippines and Indon helpers, and went for the Ph lady who showed us she understood our questions, and expectations. This is only possible, because we were able to talk and listen to each other clearly. Today, she's shown herself to be awesome helper. Perhaps, it's not about nationality, but the one who communicates effectively with you. My neighbour's helper is from Myanmar, worked 8yrs and is effectively a part of their family, and speaks fluent english (she didn't use to) and dialects now. Hope this' a food for thought for you :)