MIL MIL....!!!!!

Honestly speaking, because you guys have to go to work, you can’t really control what’s going on at home after sch between her and LO. Even if you guys were to flare at her, she’s just gonna be “then don’t ask me to take care”. I would ask my husband to sternly let her know the “to do’s” and the “not to do’s” then ending with if you want the best for your grandchild (in short guilt trip her lol) and be firm on it. Explain to her that in the morning, teachers needs to settle the kids coming in before they gather as a group to start the day. Even adults needs time to socialise let alone toddlers. For the sceeentime, perhaps propose to her how about letting him hear instead of fully watching? Alternatively for the cot and your bed, you can get some waterproof mats to put under your LO so you don’t have to keep changing especially in the MOTN.

understand ur feelings totally... baby is sick already, yet still have to listen to sarcastic remarks.. i dun have a good experience when my MIL helped to take care too.. they old ppl always prefer to use their own methods to take care... and will always think that they are right since their children have grown up already... buay tahan... but just have to take it or leave it... hope u find ur way out of this difficult situation.. im glad my life is currently more peaceful hahaha.. anyway, my baby got brochitis previously when abt 3 mths old.. i have a PD doc can recommend to you cos is recommended by my colleague previously and she is the one who treated my baby from brochitis

Honestly speaking, your MIL is not obligated to look after YOUR child. Not standing at anyone’s side, but standing at the logical point of view. She’s not your maid that she has to follow your way . It’s already very lucky that you have your mil to look after your kid. Don’t like her way and her comment then don’t pass your kid to her… If you can’t stand it, look for alternative care solution. Or hire a helper. Then your helper must listen to you and must do things your way.

Agree with the other comment. You don’t really get the “right” to be angry at the screen time cause I’m sure you know, that entertaining a toddler is damn taxing. I don’t know how old and well is your MIL but I won’t be too stern on the screen time. I will only request that only certain content is allowed and that my child is at least how far away from the TV, and what is the max volume. Hope your child recovers soon!

https://www.sbcc.sg/doctor/dr-chan-kit-yee/ u are try this Dr Chan Kit Yee but just be prepared that the med fees are quite costly

What to do. Most likely you stay in her house de. If cannot tahan rental and hire a maid lo

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