Everyday I try my best to ask the husband, "How are you today?" "How was work/your day?" and if he seems to be getting a lot of calls or msgs from work when he is home, I'll ask, "What happened? Is anything the matter?" But he occassionally ask me.. well, most of the time, I am already sharing my day on FB or I would msg him directly. I feel so sad when his eyes is glued to his hp when I am talking to him. Either for his own browsing leisure or for work purpose. Afterall, he is the only daily adult interaction I get really.

I think we all by and large have become slaves to our gadgets. Here, the guilty party is your husband and somewhere else it would be wife. So, we all are sailing in the same boat. Even saying all this, I am with you here, because I, too, face the similar situation. And after continuous nagging, fighting over 'give time to me, you are always on the phone', I have come to the conclusion that this realisation should come from the person himself and you cannot force anyone to spend time with you. Let this realisation dawn upon your husband rather than imposing it. When he is home, you too get engaged in anything you like doing. Since you are available, he is taking your presence for granted. So, try not being available.