Everyday I try my best to ask the husband, "How are you today?" "How was work/your day?" and if he seems to be getting a lot of calls or msgs from work when he is home, I'll ask, "What happened? Is anything the matter?" But he occassionally ask me.. well, most of the time, I am already sharing my day on FB or I would msg him directly. I feel so sad when his eyes is glued to his hp when I am talking to him. Either for his own browsing leisure or for work purpose. Afterall, he is the only daily adult interaction I get really.

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Whoops I am the guilty party here, who is always glued to my phone. There is just never ending work. Hubby and me have a cue he uses when he thinks I am not spending enough time with him or baby - he just says oi,phone. And I know that I have crossed the line, and I drop the phone immediately. I think it's about communicating with each other in a non emotional and accusatory way.

Ashleigh Peterson Lemmon

Mother of 1 curious magician

8y ago

Yoy are the only other person ive heard whom uses the code word system to not nag or get defensivet

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Home Random Talk everyday i try best ask husband how today how was workyour day if seems getting lot calls msgs from work when home ill ask what happened anything matterbut occassionally ask most time i already sharing day fb i msg him directlyi feel sad when eyes glued hp when i talking him either own browsing leisure work purpose afterall only daily adult interaction i get really