Everyday I try my best to ask the husband, "How are you today?" "How was work/your day?" and if he seems to be getting a lot of calls or msgs from work when he is home, I'll ask, "What happened? Is anything the matter?" But he occassionally ask me.. well, most of the time, I am already sharing my day on FB or I would msg him directly. I feel so sad when his eyes is glued to his hp when I am talking to him. Either for his own browsing leisure or for work purpose. Afterall, he is the only daily adult interaction I get really.

There is 1 time i told him, when we go out, i don't see u play handphone and leaving me alone with the kids, if not next time u go out on your own. At home, i can't control much, but i will generally remind him, why not you go and married ur phone instead, and make love with it. It's a very obvious hint to him that i had enough. I try to find other topics to talk about instead than work, if really something happen, i also can't help much with it also. Now i try not to share much things on facebook to keep him getting interested about what going on with me, so he will ask and want to know. If he go out, he must let me know, but if i go out, i will not let him know. We have to be mysterious a bit, if not they think we are ok with it.