Difficulties to get pregnant after 1st child?

Actually to get pregnant is not to think about it at all. Just go with the flow. Have intercourse on alternate days instead of just your ovulation week. I wasn’t really planning on getting pregnant after my firstborn and sex has gone out the window ever since baby was born. I also had emergency c-sect so was advised to wait at at least 2 years for another baby. You could say I wanted another one subconsciously as I find myself dreading my menses cycle every month. And I thought there’s a Low chance I’d ever get pregnant again so soon. We only had intercourse like once a month or so. And I’m usually on top so the chances of getting pregnant is lower due to gravity. So I didn’t think too much about it. Didn’t want to stress myself out as I was already 33 in 2021. I only started taking pre-conception supplements early Dec 2021 and my last intercourse was mid Nov. To my surprise on 6 Dec 2021 I got a BFP. 😅 Maybe start on pre-conception supplements and have intercourse on alternate days.

I tried for 5 months for my second baby. For me what I did was consume folic acid while ttc and took ovulation tests.