My baby is big for her age

My baby girl is currently 14 months old yet she's 17 kilograms. Formula fed (Lactum) from 6-12 months lang and ngayon Nido jr, currently working but I think magreresign na because I feel like nag fail ako as a mom, hindi ako hands-on kasi I was working and left her Mon-sat to my MIL. At first marami na talagang nagsasabi na malaki si baby, but to me and my husband parang normal lang naman weight niya kasi nga walang ibang bata na ka edad niya to compare. Dun lang ako na alarm when her pediatrician told us na better ipa check siya sa pedia-endo kasi she's worried din sa weight ni baby 😢 Di pa kami makapunta sa nirecommend niyang doctor, it's from another city pa mga 4 hrs byahe (we need time and money) so now grabe po anxiety and guilt ko. May same case ba dito na they have huge babies but they turned out okay? 😔 I just want to feel better 😔 #AskingAsAMom #Needadvice