Working mom guilt

Am not experiencing as working mom n the baby is not young as yours. Tp sy experienced bawa anak buah balik Malaysia at the age of 7 months plus. Of course the kid doesn't know anything. He @ she doesn't know yg die berjauhan dgn mak die. Tp mak die lah rasa lonely, rasa rindu kt anak die... Tp cause of some of circumstances, terpaksa berjauhan dgn anak. My nephew pun dah besar, 7 years old now. When we bring him back here he just little small boy doesn't know anything. Now, he growing up with his 2 auntys 2 uncles, atok dan nenek. Die tahu die ada mummy, tp just like that sahaja lah, mummy mummy mummy bila video call. Tp bonding antara mom n son x ada. Physical attachment, emotional attachment semua x ada. Mommy die nk bawa balik ambik die semula pun die x nk sbb die kata nk jaga atok nenek die. Thats my experience with my nephew. Kalau untuk awak, sy pun x sure jarak nk jauh tu mcm mana. Kalau still within Malaysia, balik2 lah jenguk anak. Jgn teruskan tinggal mcm tu sahaja. Adakan physical attachment dgn anak, baru emotional anak n mother ada attachment. It will help them to grow better.

Hi mummy. Saya tak pernah dalam situasi ni, tapi saya just nak share situation abang & kakak ipar saya. Time anak2 dorang kecik umur 2bulan, dorang terpaksa tinggal anak dorang kat my mom as both of them askar. Selalu kena pergi kursus panjang sana sini. So boleh kata kan time anak2 dorang umur 2bulan sampai 2tahun lebih,memang banyak habis masa dengan atok nenek je. Tapi if ada masa free my brother & sil akan balik kampung tengok anak2. Video call hari2 memang wajib. Alhamdulillah dorang kenal mak ayah doramg. And bonding dengan atok nenek pun kuat, mesra & manja. Selalu la borak dengan anak ye mummy bagitau awal2 kat dia mummy ada kerja & kena tinggal dia. Walaupun dia kecik, insyaallah dia faham.. Semoga dipermudahkan urusan mummy okay.

Hiii, i cant imagine how you would feel. Sy tak pernah berjauhan dgn anak. Tp dari segi psychology anak mmg senang adapt terutama baby. Tapi yg susahnya emosi awk tambah kalau awk ada susu badan. Think about your emotions k. Susah sbb cari rezeki bukan suka2. And i know kalau ada pilihan awk mesti nak dekat dgn anak. Semoga awk kuat ya 🫶