anybody here has 1 child and is contented? Do they really need siblings?i feel so tired managing work child and housework, cant imagine if i have 2 i wld really hv zero me time.it's not gd for our marriage either. Is there really a need to "suffer so much just to give yr child a sibling"? also i dont have parents staying with me so it is already tough w one

hi i am in ur situation so I can feel you..no helper and not staying w parents. don't intend to get helper too..and everyday feel quite tired to shuffle from work to home plus baby and housework. however I really do hope to give my baby a sibling in time to come..Maybe when he is a bit older..he is now 18 mths. I feel having a sibling means he can then share responsibilities with someone close and have someone to confide in when their parents (us) are old and sick. else I cannot imagine the load and stress on a single child. no one to discuss things w as well. bt that's just my point of view.