anybody here has 1 child and is contented? Do they really need siblings?i feel so tired managing work child and housework, cant imagine if i have 2 i wld really hv zero me time.it's not gd for our marriage either. Is there really a need to "suffer so much just to give yr child a sibling"? also i dont have parents staying with me so it is already tough w one

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Me! I am closing my factory after one baby even though my husband sometimes tries to convince me otherwise . Actually many parents often say they only want one kid but when the baby grows older they will change their minds again when they see their baby so lonely :) maybe wait one or two years before deciding? The initial one year can be tough but it should get better again. I feel one child also ok, because for me I let my parents take care of my gal and there are three other cousins in the same house so it is like she has siblings. You can bring her out for play dates more if she is the only child. Well some people said that only child will have a lot of burden when the parents get older .but I think financially I can save more for my one child to prepare her for future too so well not too stressed about this. I think if you can afford it and still young can consider a second one. Tough also only for a few years :)

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