Planning for second child

For me, you can plan and plan but you can't fight your fate. We didn't expect or plan for #4, cause i have so many plan to achieve this year. Fret not, we use protection too but fate written opposite and hit! Suck thumbs and go with it! it's a blessing! If financial not a problem i would say Go for it! Having a supportive and helpful husband is enough too. Both can get through this together. If fate for both of you to have 2nd, GO GO GO!! 1. Get a new job first. 2. While give sometime for firstborn to get used to childcare. 3. Buy house 4. Try second one, if hit huat! If not, keep trying and don't stress! 😀 May GOD guide you the way and smooth all your plans and journey ❤️