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Confinement Tips

Hello everyone. I will be trying to DIY a confinement once I give birth. But contrary to most chinese families, my family does not believe in confinement practices at all. But I have heard many stories from friends and colleagues about the implications in the future if I do not do my confinement properly, I have still decided to do confinement on my own…. Any tips and tricks to follow? E.g. Can i reuse use leftover water from the bathing herbs pail to wash hands? Or must be solely cooled boiled water? What are some must dos and what are some things that are ok not to do? Will have my family to help with anything, but just that they are skeptical and unsure of any traditional practices. #advicepls #thankyou

I’m also thinking of DIY ourselves. Hubby says it is a good way to keep us very hands on. I’m probably considering the Confinement food delivery and 28 day TCM herbs both from Thomson. These herbs eliminate the boiling of herbal soups and tea from those TCM halls. And cater to any boiling just for those herbal baths only. Considering between Mdm Partum or Lao Ban Niang. And definitely post partum massages. Just ensure after body touches water, dry it immediately instead of having some dampness lying around the skin. I heard no fan but aircon at 25 degree c. Blow dry hair immediately after shower.

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Its been difficult for me and my husband. We have been trying for quite some time and went to the doctor for checkups etc. We both knew the problem was me because of my irregular menses. The doctor recommended for a sperm analysis (on top of my blood test for hormones etc etc). My husband didnt say anything during the checkup but we got into an argument because he didnt want to. Today, I found out that he cried telling his parents abt the sperm analysis because i told him to do it (which he already did and submitted) Should i be upset or should i feel guilty about it? #PleaseAdvice #pleasehelp #thankyou

Please don’t feel that way. Having a kid is two person’s problem, nothing wrong with trying to look for a solution. It’s probably ego problem for your hub when you ask him to go for fertility check ups. But what I don’t understand is that why would he complain to his parents? 🫣 My spouse and I are considered young and was TTC for a year before we got pregnant. Same as you, my period was irregular. My period can delay for an entire month, on different days and only lasted 3 days. There was also a period where we actively did it every day and it was still negative. I chanced upon folic acids and supplements for my hub and I was telling him that if this still doesn’t help, let’s go for fertility check up. In less than a month of consuming (we took blackmores), we got pregnant! (My bb is now 8.5mo!) So it’s not necessarily because of the irregular menses, try out folic acids babe and forget about the whatsoever ovulation test. The lesser you stress, the higher the chance. Good luck!! 💪🏻

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