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Hi all, when you found your hubby and his ex sex video and naked pictures. What should you do? #37weeks

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Teach him a proper lesson! He is being disgusting cheating you with her thoughts. As a man my advice to you is to make him learn the hard way . Or else he is never gonna change. Wanking for ex gf videos is considered an insult to the wife. He even has the guts to tell you he watches it as a porn??? Did he think about your feelings? I strongly urge you to think about the factors. Get him to remove it. Teach him in a tough way so that in future he wont even look at another woman

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2y ago

he said he never meet the girl,only watch their video as he's watching porn as usual. it's wired and hurt my feelings as a wife. our daily life he was very nice and fulfill his duty as a husband

i felt that before .. i lost my confidence everything . kept thinking negative and insecurities killing me everyday .. it took me months to really talk to my husband that i dont like him watching looking other girls exes etc .. what if it were to be me doing that would he like it .. slowly my husband stop all that and prove me he want only me .. Have faith .. dont give up .. work things out together dear .. trust me God is with you 💋❤

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2y ago

I feel insecure, everyday keep thinking and thinking. he didn't show me if he deleted or what ever. just say sorry and won't do it again. can I trust?

I would leave him for good. it'll be hard, but i will not let my child to be ard who watches porn. He wont be in the right mind to raise my children. I will not let him be the father to my children. He still watches it?? Sorry, he will never move on. And he has forever lost my trust for him. Sorry to say this but you deserve better, your children deserve better.

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2y ago

was thinking about it after I give birth as I am non Singaporean

Super Mum

Why does he even have them? 🤦🏻‍♀️ Hugs, dear. He should delete them. It’s only right. I would ask him to delete them in front of me (both from the gallery and ‘Recently Deleted’ folders)

2y ago

Confront him. Why should he watch his ex when he is with you? If he cant forget her he should not marry you. Its unfair to you

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That’s cheating man confrontation and tell him that if he still Want this marriage then delete her contact and delete those photos. Find out what went wrong between u both. And work the marriage out

2y ago

I am feel unsecured now...

I would confront him, because for me it feels like i'm not being respected. and if i were to bottle the feelings in, it would not do well for baby as well.

2 option. Me or his ex gf. I would rather him watch porn then fantasied about his ex gf. Coz anytime he can meet up with his ex gf and they can 'spark' that.

I will straight away throw his phone out of the window.

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confront him and get him to remove it.

I do not know what to do,