Infant fall

My son today 3rd time fall from storage bed. GOD only knows how I feel so guilty towards my son. He 9 month plus old today. My husband scold and hit me 3 times for it. He dont let me take care of my son. Why this happened to my son? Im the one who sins alot in this world. Anyone advice pls.#firstbaby

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It is a normal,part and parcel of life that our kids would fall and it is something unavoidable as they grow up become a little explorer as they are meant to be. No matter how young or old they are we parents, Esp Mothers❤ will always feel guilty and heartache. Accidents like this always happen when we least expect it . I had my 5 month old daughter who had just fell asleep in her bed and I went to eat dinner but she had woken up, roll over and fell down. That guilt alone made me lose sleep. Thankfully everything was fine for my baby girl. The Warning signs are usually when baby is drowsy and not active at all after a fall,bulging on soft spot of head or fainting or vomit. KKH also has a KKH Urgent Paediatric Advice Line (U-PAL) that has an online chat service to help you clear any doubts. As For your husband hitting you,under no and any circumstances,he does not have the right to hit you. I do hope you two would work out regarding this issue if not , do get help from someone you trust dear mummy. It is not good for him to vent his frustrations on you and he should understand that parenting is tough and help out plus understand more. if He has Hit thrice he won't hesitate to hit you again. Do Take Care And Stay Safe Dear Mummy.

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