Dilemma mengandung

1st time jumpa kes mcm kes i.. i dlu ada problem vaginismus, mmg masalah everytime nk brsama suami bcoz takut sakit.. i preggy pun after 3y, brsalin normal.. perasaan takut nk brsalin normal tu mmg real, it's not easy sbb everytime Dr mmg akan check bukaan, i induce masuk ubat bwh, x brjaya masuk belon, pecahkn air ketumban, gunting bwh, smua tu sakit.. tp sis kena prcaya Allah mmg cipta kita sbg pmpuan ni mampu utk melahirkan, vagina kita blh mngembang mngecut ikut keadaan.. org yg x de pnyakit ni pun sama je rasa sakit brsalin tu.. and the best things is lpas anak i lahir, i dh ok mmg kurang rasa trauma utk brsama.. logically, byangkn if laluan bwh kita blh trbuka smpi 10cm utk branak so why takut utk brsama dgn suami sdangkn jauh lebih kecil dr itu 😅 just be positive & prcya Allah bg kita sakit sbb kita mampu utk hadapinya 💙 its now my 2nd pregnancy around 14w & i doakan smoga sis diberikan kkuatan, prcaya pd diri dan diprmudahkn urusan brsalin nnt.. please doakn i juga diprmudahkn slmt brsalin ya 💙 (small tips : no need to elective ceaser if brsalin normal pun u blh request for epidural.. mmg akan kurangkn rasa sakit & blh hilngkn trauma u sdikit sbnyak)

hi sis, kena faham vaginismus ni is the symptom bila zakar lngsung xboleh tembus lubang faraj xkira pkai apa method pun. klu pkai pelincir baru boleh masuk means u xde masalah tu. its more to find posisi yg sesuai and need more foreplay. and time pregnant mmg ada org extra kering...and xselesa utk bersama. utk ank 1st, klu ibu and kndungan xde apa2 mslh, u will go through normal delivery 1st. czer is the last option...and its called emergency czer. elective czer is an option given to mum who pernah ada scar czer. ada ibu2 alami mslh ini and they have normal delivery. nanti masa 36w above, buat la urutan perenium for preparation.