My possessive mother in law

Recently I went for a business trip, and when I came back, my sis in law ask my son if he miss me. My mil gave a disgusted look. All along she doesn't want my son to be close to me... but I wonder why can't my son be close to me.. I am the mum. I don't feel my husband know the pain in me... who is so evil to want the child not close to the own mum.... I really have enough of my mil... I can't trust her at all with my son..she wan my son to be closer to her than me... nobody understands the fear and pain in me... since my son is born, she being saying nasty things to me. Sometimes i feel so stress that i feel so despair about my life... my husband is also definitely closer to his family than me. When i was pregant that time... i had bleeding on his niece birthday and he gave me a look like i purposely try not to attend the birthday. After going to hospital for the jab, i still have to go to the birthday celebration of the niece...I feel so alone.. #adviceplease #firstimemom

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Maybe you can stand against your husband . I was once in this situation too, i used to be fear and following them in every situation. But then i realised this is my son , i gave birth to him. And then i started to fight against my husband. When he use his mother to threaten me, i screamed back at him “ OH SO WHAT? U THINK I SCARE ? THIS IS MY SON, NOT YOUR MOM SON. IM DOING MY BEST TO RAISE MY SON . AND YOU??? ONLY KNOW HOW TO ASK YOUR MOM FOR HELP! MOMMY BOY LA U! I PUT IN CHILDCARE THEN U UPSET? What right do you have to be upset when what you did is only “ASK MOM FOR HELP” ! Have u changed his diaper?? Have u feed him??? Have you put him to sleep??? NEVER! I did everything and now i put him into childcare then u complain??? U like your mother so much then u marry your mom la!!!! Marry me for what???

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