Putting your spouse first or putting your kids first?

I would put my spouse first because we have been through so much together and the happy life, the kids -- all that happened because of the love I share with my spouse. That being said, it's not as if I will love my children any less. It's just a different kind of love put out separately for my kids and my spouse. Plus, at the end of the day, when the kids have grown and moved on with their lives, my spouse will be the one next to me to hopefully grow old gracefully with. So yes, I will love my children unconditionally and give them my all but at the end of the day, my man will always be the love of my life :)