My husband has had low libido for a while. We only had sex when we were TTC. Even then it was a chore for him. So it hasn't been enjoyable for me for a long while. When I got pregnant, we tried maybe a couple times. But the last time we did, I had some mild bleeding and got scared. So from then, we haven't had sex. I usually just self pleasure when I need the release. On the last month of my pregnancy, I will have to insist that we do the deed coz it will help quicken giving birth, so they say. We'll just see!